Sadly, after many days together we found this (see pic) all that remains of the male is this leg and a massive bolus of mulched male
Sad as this may be, it’s probably the best source of sustenance that she will have at any one time. Setting her up well to produce a tidy eggsac. She certainly looks podgy right now.
If conditions are right then we should see some signs of her getting ready to lay in a few months or less.